2024 A Teen w/ Life, Courage, & Change(吾家湉妞初长成)

2024-02-02 Groundhog Day

【Chaos in Motion and Not in Motion (1947)】

Wallace Stevens (1879—1955)

    Oh, that this lashing wind was something more

    Than the spirit of Ludwig Richter …

    The rain is pouring down. It is July.

    There is lightning and the thickest thunder.

    It is a spectacle. Scene 10 becomes 11,

    In Series X, Act IV, et cetera.

    People fall out of windows, trees tumble down,

    Summer is changed to winter, the young grow old,

    The air is full of children, statues, roofs

    And snow. The theatre is spinning round,

    Colliding with deaf-mute churches and optical trains.

    The most massive sopranos are singing songs of scales.

    And Ludwig Richter, turbulent Schlemihl,

    Has lost the whole in which he was contained,

    Knows desire without an object of desire,

    All mind and violence and nothing felt.

    He knows he has nothing more to think about,

    Like the wind that lashes everything at once.

—— ? —— ? —— ? —— ? —— ? —— ? —— ? ——

【《动态混乱与非动态混乱》(1947)】

华莱士·史蒂文斯“异乡人·花环”(1879生—1955卒)

【红霞译】

            噢，但愿这猛烈的风不止是

            名将·法官的精神……

            大雨倾盆而下。时值七月。

            迅若闪电而势过雷鸣。

            蔚为奇观。场景10变成11，

            X系列里、第四幕、等等。

            人们从窗户坠落，树木摇摇欲倒，

            夏去冬来，少年变老，

            空气里充满了孩子、雕像、屋顶

            还有雪。剧场回转，

            与聋哑教堂和光学系统相撞。

            大批女高音歌手都在唱音阶优美的歌曲。

            而名将·法官，暴躁的倒霉鬼，

            已经失去他所在的整体，

            知道欲望而没有欲望的对象，

            所有的思想和暴力都感觉不到。

            他明白没有什么可想，

            就像风转瞬间席卷一切。

【注】《《吾家有女初长》——这首诗的作者虽已无从考证，但那份为人父母看着女儿一天天长大的欣喜，却是古今相同的。更广为人知的，是白居易在《长恨歌》里写下的那句经典：“杨家有女初长成，养在深闺人未识。”说的是杨玉环，可那份“初长成”的惊艳与珍视，放在每一个父亲母亲眼里，都同样真切。

今天，把这句诗送给家里13岁的湉妞。十三岁，正是从孩童迈向少女的分界线——像清晨六点的光，还带着露水的凉意，却已经有了太阳的温度。

愿你往后日子里有生活的暖意，有面对未知的勇气，也有改变自己的决心。慢慢长，好好长，长成自己喜欢的模样。

                吾家有女初长成，

                娇俏可人及倾城。

                借问芬芳春与秋，

                豆蔻年华无忧愁。

Today in History(历史上的今天):

2011: 除夕这一天(CNY Eve)

2008: 多米尼加—水淙石之国(Larimar Dominican Republic)

100-Day Old Infant w/ the 2^nd-Grader Cousin & Grandma

(湉妞百日照·与外婆和小学二年级表哥一起 05-05-2011)

Companionship (陪伴 10-02-2012)

Growth together (共同成长 10-05-2012)

Toddler-I w/ the 4^th-Grade Bro

(小幼儿与小学四年级表哥 10-05-2012)

Duet (双簧 10-14-2012)

Accompaniment  (伴奏 10-28-2012)

Piano 4 Hands (钢琴四手联弹 10-28-2012)

Backing Music (背景音乐 10-23-2013)

Toddler-II @ Monsters Univ

(大幼儿生观看《怪兽大学》03-11-2013)

Preschooler-I @ Atoll of Water Caye in Belize

(伯利兹长滩岛·小幼童生 08-05-2014)

Kindergartener w/ the 7^th- Grader Bro @ Trick or Trade

(学前班生跟初二生表哥一起“不给糖就捣蛋”10-31-2015)

2^nd Grader w/ the 9^th-Grader Bro @ Lotus Pond of Primus Place Cultural Park in Nanjing

(南京状元坊文化公园景观花池·小学二年级生与高一生表哥 08-24-2018)

3^rd Grader w/ the 10^th-Grader Bro

(小学三年级生与高二生表哥 07-25-2019)

4^th Grader (小学四年级生 11-08-2020)

4^th Grader @ Gate of China w/ 4 Arch Gates, Nanjing

 (南京中华门劵门贯道·小学四年级生 04-05-2021)

6^th Grader @ Equestrian Club Award

(马术俱乐部赛·初一生 10-16-2022)

6^th Grader @ Nanjing Jinling Intl Equestrian Club

(马汇国际俱乐部·初一生 03-25-2023)

7^th Grader @ 13-Yr-Old BD Celebration

(13岁庆生宴·初二生 01-21-2024)

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