远志明只是向他的妻子远太太道歉了，并未向柴玲及巴黎姐妹道歉

远志明否认一切指控就是甩了她们一个大嘴巴，而不是道歉。“对于针对我的强奸、诱奸未遂和性侵指控，我一概否认。”

“对于1990年我信主前的婚外性过犯，我再次公开地向神认罪，向当事人道歉。对由此引发的目前这场风波给教会弟兄姊妹造成的伤害和困扰，我表示深深的歉意，请求大家原谅。For the extramarital sexual iniquity that I once committed in 1990 before I became a born again Christian, I once again confess my sins to God and seek His forgiveness, and offer my apologies to the party that involved in that relationship.  I am also deeply sorrowed by all the harms and troubles that have caused among the brothers and sisters at God’s church. I beg for their forgiveness. “

这里他否认强奸，他说是你情我愿的通奸，那么从他的说法他就没有得罪柴玲，只得罪了他太太，“offer my apologies to the party that involved in that relationship向当事人道歉 ”就只能理解为向远太太道歉.